10 Prayers That Will Improve Your Single Season

It seems like every week I’m releasing another blog post about Singleness. A few recent ones include: 10 Godly Ways to Enjoy Being Single, 10 Steps to Online Dating for Single Christian Women and 10 Bible Verses to Encourage Single Women.

The crazy thing is every time I’m done writing one, I am reminded of another challenge that Single Christian Women face and go right back to writing.

If you are currently Single, then you know that it can be challenging. And that sometimes it feels like nothing can take away the loneliness, worry or sadness you feel.

That’s why today I’m sharing with you 10 Prayers That Will Improve Your Single Season. And of course, I also created prayer cards, that you can use to memorize these prayers. 

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The below Bible Verses have been quoted from the Life Application Study Bible (NIV).

1 Pray that God helps you to guard your heart

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. -Proverbs 4:23

Heavenly Father, thank you for creating me as a woman that enjoys to show affection, provide warmth and extend love to others. You know my heart and how fragile it is. That I tend to get emotionally invested in my relationships, which hurts if they don’t work out. Father, I ask you to help me to guard my heart. Teach me to set boundaries and protect my mind, my soul and my heart. Help me to stay on the right path that leads to a godly relationship with you in the center. Amen.

2 Pray that you are able to control sexual desires

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. – 1 Corinthians 6:18

Father, thank you for the desire to honor you with my body. I recognize the effect sexual immorality can have on my life, my purpose, and my relationship with you. I pray that I don’t doubt or underestimate its power to destroy me physically and spiritually. Instead, I ask that you give me the strength to flee from sexual sin and help me to not conform to the culture. Please make my desire to follow you greater than my desire to please my flesh and show me how to keep my thoughts pure. Amen.

3 Pray that you find joy in every day

This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. – Psalm 118:24

Oh Lord, I praise you for blessing me with another day. You woke me up today because you are not done with me yet. And even though my situation overwhelms and saddens me at times, I choose to be happy. I know that you have a plan for my life and that today is the day you have made for me to rejoice in it. Teach me how to develop real joy that comes from you and that sustains any circumstance. Amen.

4 Pray that you are willing to wait for God’s perfect timing

Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. – Song of Songs 8:4

Jesus, I praise your name, because you have already laid out every day of my life and no moment comes as a surprise to you. I ask you that whenever my desire for love takes over my thinking, you give me the wisdom to see through my superficial feelings and emotions. Help me not to rush into an intimate relationship, that pleases my flesh, but to trust in your perfect timing and wait for a commitment of love that honors you. Amen.

5 Pray against anxiety and worry

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:6-7

God, thank you for this season of singleness and the opportunity it presents for spiritual growth. You know that sometimes I tend to worry about whether or not I will ever find ‘The One’. That’s why I ask you to help me overcome my anxiety about the future by keeping my eyes on things above. Remind me that you are in control and fill my heart with your peace, that transcends all understanding. Amen.

10 Prayers That Will Improve Your Single Season

6 Pray for trust in God

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. – Proverbs 3:5-6

Jesus, I thank you for your mercy, patience, and goodness towards me. And thank you for being my guide and my provider. I know that sometimes I try to restrict or ignore you in certain areas of my life because I feel like I know what is best for me. But you are a better judge than me because you know the reason for my season. I pray that I learn to trust you with all my heart and don’t lean on my own understanding. Help me to surrender all my hopes, dreams and plans to you and follow your lead in everything I do. Amen.

7 Pray to become a godly woman

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. – Proverbs 31:30

God, I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Thank you for creating me in your image and blessing me with the holy spirit, in which I have become a new creation. God, please remove the parts of me that aren’t godly, righteous and honoring to you. Show me the areas that I can still improve in to become the godly woman that you have called me to be. Teach me how to become wise, make good decisions, and live according to your will. Amen.

8 Pray for focus on your purpose

{…}An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. – 1 Corinthians 7:34

God, I thank you for the gift of singleness. For the opportunity to dedicate my undivided attention to you and your work. I pray that whenever I ask for this season to be over because I feel like being married is better, that you remind me how valuable this season is. God, I pray that I use my single season to serve you wholeheartedly and put a greater focus on accomplishing your purpose for my life. Teach me to seek first your kingdom and trust that everything else will be given to me as well. Amen.  

9 Pray for your future husband

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. – Genesis 2:24

Jesus, I thank you for creating marriage and blessing me with the desire to become one flesh with the man you chose for me. Even if I don’t know who I will marry, I know you do. I pray that you make him a man after your own heart and teach him to hear your voice. Please give him wisdom and discernment, so that he chooses to follow your lead. Prepare him for the commitment that is marriage and teach him how to love like you love the church. Amen.

Click here for a list of bible verses to pray over your future husband.

10 Pray to overcome your loneliness

No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us. – 1 John 4:12

Dear God, I thank you for the relationship we have and that I can rely on you as my best friend. I thank you that I can cast all my anxieties on you because your care for me. In this challenging season, I ask you for strength and motivation to see each day as a blessing. Teach me to admit my needs to my brothers and sisters in Christ, so that they can help me overcome my loneliness and safeguard me in their community. Help me to find comfort, confidence, and contentment in my singleness. In your name, I pray, Amen.

10 war room prayers for single women

Remember that the power of prayer is that it grants peace. In order for you to be reminded of that peace, it’s important that you either memorize God’s word or pray these short prayers wherever you go.

By downloading the Prayer Cards you can easily pack them into your bag and read them throughout the day.

Do you have personal Prayers That Will Improve Your Single Season? Share them BELOW!

4 Comments on 10 Prayers That Will Improve Your Single Season

  1. Thank you for these wonderful prayers!!! Truely!! Reading them I was shocked as if you actually knew me, but instead I realized I’m not the only one thinking these thoughts and struggling with these things. Thank you!

    • You are most welcome Jessica. That’s why my blog exists because I realized I’m not the only one fighting these thoughts.

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