how to know if God wants you to be with someone Dating can be complicated. And while you might think Christian dating would be easier, it really is not. The uncertainty, outside influences, and pressure to find the right person will follow you even when you’re dating with a purpose. So, what now? Well, the […] Read more…

How long does it take to get over a relationship?  The saying “time heals all wounds” could not be further from the truth. Especially, when it comes to breakups from a long-term relationship. The truth is, time heals nothing! Because the healing process is different for everybody and depends on factors like the length of […] Read more…

Is vulnerability attractive? If you have been rocking with me for a while then you know I started focusing on personal development in 2015 after a very exhausting situationship left me devastated. Since then I did the work to go from a very anxious attachment style to being securely attached.  Doing the inner work was […] Read more…

More than friends but not dating  It’s now been about 2 years since I started writing about situationships. A no man’s land that many women find themselves in. Maybe you are dating a guy and it feels like you are together but not together. Even though the two of you have been hanging out for […] Read more…

How to distance yourself from someone you love If you are anything like I used to be you are probably wondering why I would ever suggest pulling away from someone you love. I mean, after all, you love him and he may even love you too. So, shouldn’t you do everything in your power to […] Read more…