how to stop being needy and desperate in a relationship Whether you are currently in a relationship or simply dating, you probably have experienced clinginess before and know how neediness can ruin your relationship.  Being overly clingy, controlling, or even jealous seriously turns a man off and makes him question your confidence in yourself.  Neediness […] Read more…

how to be vulnerable in dating Vulnerability is one of my favorite topics. Since reading Brené Brown’s The Gifts of Imperfection last year, I have been obsessed with understanding it better and teaching it to my clients. And the more I understand vulnerability, the more I realize that it is what helped me be successful […] Read more…

Why they always come back when you move on A story as old as a handmaid’s tale. Men that suddenly pop out of the woodworks after you finally moved on.  In the three real relationships and multiple situationships I have been in, this phenomenon always held true. The moment I had completely given up on […] Read more…

When to let a relationship go How do you know when God tells you to let go of someone?  Have you ever been in a situation and had that tugging feeling that God is telling you to end a relationship? But your emotions for him are running so high that you can’t make a decision? […] Read more…

How to move on from your ex-boyfriend There is nothing more painful than a romantic breakup because it’s usually unwanted or at least hard to go through with.  But when it happens, it happens for a reason. After all, a relationship that is happy and healthy would not have ended.  And once you come to […] Read more…