How long does it take to get over a relationship? The saying “time heals all wounds” could not be further from the truth. Especially, when it comes to breakups from a long-term relationship. The truth is, time heals nothing! Because the healing process is different for everybody and depends on factors like the length of […] Read more…
Relationships
Is Vulnerability Attractive or Are You Too Sensitive?
Is vulnerability attractive? If you have been rocking with me for a while then you know I started focusing on personal development in 2015 after a very exhausting situationship left me devastated. Since then I did the work to go from a very anxious attachment style to being securely attached. Doing the inner work was […] Read more…
What To Do If You Are More Than Friends But Not Dating
More than friends but not dating It’s now been about 2 years since I started writing about situationships. A no man’s land that many women find themselves in. Maybe you are dating a guy and it feels like you are together but not together. Even though the two of you have been hanging out for […] Read more…
How to distance yourself from someone you love
How to distance yourself from someone you love If you are anything like I used to be you are probably wondering why I would ever suggest pulling away from someone you love. I mean, after all, you love him and he may even love you too. So, shouldn’t you do everything in your power to […] Read more…
Can an on again off again relationship work?
on again off again relationship It always surprises me how accustomed we have become to unhealthy dating patterns. From situationships that never end to side chicks that are proud and on again off again relationships that cost us most of our baby-making years. How do I know? Well, because I entertained one for 3.5 years. […] Read more…
If a guy likes you he will make the effort
If a guy likes you he will make the effort In case you didn’t know, my entire blogging and coaching career came about with this one statement “if a guy likes you he will…”. During most of my twenties, I settled for bare minimum energy from men. I thought that in order for a man […] Read more…
Signs A Guy Is Unsure Of His Feelings For You
Signs a guy is unsure of his feelings for you Just like many of you, I watched season 2 of Love Is Blind on Netflix last week. A show that has captivated so many of us since it first came out in 2020. If you don’t know what I’m talking about just search for Love […] Read more…