how to be vulnerable with a man Vulnerability is one of my favorite topics. Since reading Brené Brown’s The Gifts of Imperfection last year, I have been obsessed with understanding it better and teaching it to my clients. And the more I understand vulnerability, the more I realize that it is what helped me be […] Read more…

They always come back!  A story as old as a handmaid’s tale. Exes that suddenly pop out of the woodworks after you finally moved on.  In the three real relationships and multiple situationships I have been in, this phenomenon always held true. The moment I completely gave up on a hopeless relationship, the old boo […] Read more…

When God tells you to let go of someone How do you know when God tells you to let go of someone? That is a common question that godly couples all over the world ask themselves.  They want to make sure that they are dating with purpose and correctly discerning God’s will from their own fleshly […] Read more…

how to move on There is nothing more painful than a romantic breakup because it’s usually unwanted or at least hard to go through with.  But when it happens, it happens for a reason. After all, a relationship that is happy and healthy would not have ended.  And once you come to terms with that, […] Read more…

How to keep a man interested longterm As you know most of the posts on my blog talk about how to identify the right guy and how to avoid the wrong guy. Because my goal is to help you date strategically and with intention.  However, what happens when you start dating a great guy and […] Read more…