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Hi, I'm Justine a certified dating and relationship coach who has been blogging on here since 2017. My purpose for this site is to help women attract and maintain a godly relationship, by teaching self-love, mastery of the mind and confidence. My dating and relationship advice advice is faith-based but practical and sourced from my own and other people's life experience.

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ABOUT JUSTINE

Justine is a certified dating, relationship and life coach who has been blogging on justinemfulama.com since 2017. Her purpose for this site is to help women attract and maintain a godly relationship, by teaching self-love, mastery of the mind and confidence. Her dating advice and relationship advice is faith-based but practical and sourced from her own and other people's life experience.

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In 10 years of traveling, moving and searching I didn’t think that Atlanta would be the place I’d fall in love with. ⁣⁣
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It’s not just the city, not just the people, not just the food. It’s the joy for life I feel every day that I’ve been here. ⁣⁣
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God knew that 3 months wouldn’t be enough, so he blessed me with more than I thought was possible. ⁣⁣
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Thank you to everyone that made these last 2 years so fun, exciting and memorable. 💛

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When I was a child a handful of teachers made the mistake to underestimate me. They would look at my many academic failures and lovingly advise that I don’t aim too high at school. ⁣
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However little did they know that where my understanding of math and grammar stopped, my ambition and persistence started. ⁣
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And it created a passion for learning and figuring things out. That’s why in my adult life I’ve been known to just go for things, because I know I can figure them out. ⁣
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I don’t know Spanish. I don’t know anyone in my next destination. And I definitely don’t know how to do my freaking taxes (HELP!). But what I do know is that “Everything is figureoutable”. ⁣
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#newseason #travelbyfaith #digitalnomad #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlswhoblog #faithblogger #datingcoach #relationshipcoach

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The face you make when life keeps giving you lemons. “Are we done yet?”. 😒😌🙃

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We tend to minimize the things we can do and maximize the things we think others can do❗️
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Why is it that we look at other people and wonder ‘how did they do it?’. Instead of looking at them and thinking ‘If they did it, I can do it?’⁣
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I believe that the limit to what someone can learn, become or accomplish is in their own mind. ⁣
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Because your true potential is unknown and only becomes visible through passion, hard work and dedication. ⁣
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Stretching yourself and persevering, even when it doesn’t seem like it’s working is the hallmark of the growth mindset. ⁣
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A mindset that knows how to convert life’s setbacks into future successes. 💛⁣
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#quoteoftheday #quotestoliveby #motivationalquotes #growthmindset #futurefocused #blogger #lifecoach #relationshipcoach #womenwhoblog #faithblogger

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Have you ever thought about how society villainizes fear and wants to avoid fear at all costs. Meanwhile that highly important instinct is out here doing what it does best and that’s trying to keep you safe. ⁣
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Feeling fear is not wrong and can at times save you from danger or a big mistake. The secret, however, is to not give it all your power. ⁣
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More so, see at as a sign that you are stepping out of your comfort zone and into a new territory that your brain needs to get used to. Because fear can either push you or hold you back.⁣
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#blackgirlswhoblog #godsplan #motivation #trustgod #faithblogger #godlywoman #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #africangirl #blackgirlmagic

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Shine baby shine ✨⁣⁣
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#whatatimetobealive⁣⁣

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A lot of people (myself included) are paralyzed by fear. ⁣
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Fear of failure. Fear of rejection. Fear of not being good enough.⁣
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But God calls us to replace our fear with faith in him. ⁣
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So if you fear rejection, remember that God has already approved of you. ⁣
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If you fear failure, remember that God works everything together for the good of those who love him. ⁣
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And if you fear that you are not good enough, remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. ⁣
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#blackgirlmagic #africangirl #purpose #faith #godfidence #fillecongolaise #congo #melanin #africanprint #africaninspired #faithblogger #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #relationshipgoals #christianblogger #godlywoman #trustgod #godsplan #motivation #blackgirlswhoblog⁣

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I have been so exhausted lately with everything that’s going on. To the point that I’ve requested next week off for my very first staycation. ⁣
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And if you know me then you know that I traditionally refuse to waste precious time off if I’m not traveling. ⁣
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However, I realized that it’s important to take some time to myself to just be still. ⁣
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As this fist half of the year is coming to an end I’m taking inventory of my losses and gains, re-viewing my goals and aligning my strategy. ⁣
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I can’t tell yet what type of year 2019 will end up being, but I know I still have time to make it the best yet.⁣
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#walkbyfaith #trusttheprocess #godfidence #livelovelaugh #purposedriven #faithblogger #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #relationshipgoals #christianblogger #godlywoman #purpose #faith #trustgod #godsplan #singleness #motivation #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlswhoblog #atlanta

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I sometimes wonder if Social Media didn’t do more harm than it did good. ⁣
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Our ability to look into people’s lives and follow them along as they rise from rags to riches, oftentimes intimidates people more than it motivates them. ⁣
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Your dream might not be in your physical reach, but it definitely isn’t found in somebody else’s life. ⁣
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#motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #dream #purpose #faith #entrepreneurship #lifegoals #millenial #blackexcellence

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