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Justine Mfulama
Justine Mfulama

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Hi, I'm Justine a certified dating and relationship coach who has been blogging on here since 2017. My purpose for this site is to help women attract and maintain a godly relationship, by teaching self-love, mastery of the mind and confidence. My dating and relationship advice advice is faith-based but practical and sourced from my own and other people's life experience.

 

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ABOUT JUSTINE

Justine is a certified dating, relationship and life coach who has been blogging on justinemfulama.com since 2017. Her purpose for this site is to help women attract and maintain a godly relationship, by teaching self-love, mastery of the mind and confidence. Her dating advice and relationship advice is faith-based but practical and sourced from her own and other people's life experience.

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Instagram post 2195816970577007042_280894569 And just like that I’m 31. ⁣ -⁣ It feels good to be passed the big 3-0 because there is no pressure associated with my mid-thirties. ⁣ -⁣ I get to just do life and see where God takes me. 🎈
Instagram post 2188592228996733042_280894569 Excited to be back on the gram like 💙... ⁣ ⁣ Ohhh how I missed Instagram, but I’m so glad I took a break. ⁣ -⁣ I used the time to dive deep into the topic of shame and fear and found out a whole lot about myself. ⁣ -⁣ How I’m ashamed of telling people that I’m a dating and relationship coach because I fear to be judged. ⁣ -⁣ Or how I’m afraid that my business will fail and I’ll have to come to terms with the fact that all my dreams and hopes for my life might never come true. ⁣ -⁣ Heck the main reason I was off the gram for so long was because I was hoping the next time I post I’d be balling and prove to myself that I’m finally ‘successful’ (whatever that means).⁣ -⁣ But instead, I’m back with nothing to show but a whole lot more self awareness and belief in who God called me to be. ⁣ -⁣ Yes, getting used to my new normal these last couple of months was hella challenging, but someone told me that everything works together for my good and I choose to believe him.
Instagram post 2139927290855563601_280894569 In 10 years of traveling, moving and searching I didn’t think that Atlanta would be the place I’d fall in love with. ⁣⁣ -⁣⁣ It’s not just the city, not just the people, not just the food. It’s the joy for life I feel every day that I’ve been here. ⁣⁣ -⁣⁣ God knew that 3 months wouldn’t be enough, so he blessed me with more than I thought was possible. ⁣⁣ -⁣⁣ Thank you to everyone that made these last 2 years so fun, exciting and memorable. 💛
Instagram post 2136341232784225970_280894569 When I was a child a handful of teachers made the mistake to underestimate me. They would look at my many academic failures and lovingly advise that I don’t aim too high at school. ⁣ -⁣ However little did they know that where my understanding of math and grammar stopped, my ambition and persistence started. ⁣ -⁣ And it created a passion for learning and figuring things out. That’s why in my adult life I’ve been known to just go for things, because I know I can figure them out. ⁣ -⁣ I don’t know Spanish. I don’t know anyone in my next destination. And I definitely don’t know how to do my freaking taxes (HELP!). But what I do know is that “Everything is figureoutable”. ⁣ -⁣ #newseason #travelbyfaith #digitalnomad #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlswhoblog #faithblogger #datingcoach #relationshipcoach
Instagram post 2134874598173110703_280894569 The face you make when life keeps giving you lemons. “Are we done yet?”. 😒😌🙃
Instagram post 2131251876012563140_280894569 We tend to minimize the things we can do and maximize the things we think others can do❗️ -⁣ Why is it that we look at other people and wonder ‘how did they do it?’. Instead of looking at them and thinking ‘If they did it, I can do it?’⁣ -⁣ I believe that the limit to what someone can learn, become or accomplish is in their own mind. ⁣ -⁣ Because your true potential is unknown and only becomes visible through passion, hard work and dedication. ⁣ -⁣ Stretching yourself and persevering, even when it doesn’t seem like it’s working is the hallmark of the growth mindset. ⁣ -⁣ A mindset that knows how to convert life’s setbacks into future successes. 💛⁣ -⁣ #quoteoftheday #quotestoliveby #motivationalquotes #growthmindset #futurefocused #blogger #lifecoach #relationshipcoach #womenwhoblog #faithblogger
Instagram post 2129103155179070914_280894569 Have you ever thought about how society villainizes fear and wants to avoid fear at all costs. Meanwhile that highly important instinct is out here doing what it does best and that’s trying to keep you safe. ⁣ -⁣ Feeling fear is not wrong and can at times save you from danger or a big mistake. The secret, however, is to not give it all your power. ⁣ -⁣ More so, see at as a sign that you are stepping out of your comfort zone and into a new territory that your brain needs to get used to. Because fear can either push you or hold you back.⁣ -⁣ #blackgirlswhoblog #godsplan #motivation #trustgod #faithblogger #godlywoman #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #africangirl #blackgirlmagic
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Instagram post 2086317982837315390_280894569 A lot of people (myself included) are paralyzed by fear. ⁣ -⁣ Fear of failure. Fear of rejection. Fear of not being good enough.⁣ -⁣ But God calls us to replace our fear with faith in him. ⁣ -⁣ So if you fear rejection, remember that God has already approved of you. ⁣ -⁣ If you fear failure, remember that God works everything together for the good of those who love him. ⁣ -⁣ And if you fear that you are not good enough, remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. ⁣ ⁣ #blackgirlmagic #africangirl #purpose #faith #godfidence #fillecongolaise #congo #melanin #africanprint #africaninspired #faithblogger #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #relationshipgoals #christianblogger #godlywoman #trustgod #godsplan #motivation #blackgirlswhoblog⁣
Instagram post 2074726353173096161_280894569 I have been so exhausted lately with everything that’s going on. To the point that I’ve requested next week off for my very first staycation. ⁣ -⁣ And if you know me then you know that I traditionally refuse to waste precious time off if I’m not traveling. ⁣ -⁣ However, I realized that it’s important to take some time to myself to just be still. ⁣ -⁣ As this fist half of the year is coming to an end I’m taking inventory of my losses and gains, re-viewing my goals and aligning my strategy. ⁣ -⁣ I can’t tell yet what type of year 2019 will end up being, but I know I still have time to make it the best yet.⁣ -⁣ #walkbyfaith #trusttheprocess #godfidence #livelovelaugh #purposedriven #faithblogger #relationshipcoach #lifecoach #relationshipgoals #christianblogger #godlywoman #purpose #faith #trustgod #godsplan #singleness #motivation #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlswhoblog #atlanta