When God Tells You Who Your Husband Is

How to know when God tells you who your husband is

How god leads you to your spouse One of the many questions I receive on this blog is: How do I know if he is the one God has for me? A question I always find hard to answer. Because I truly believe that there is no such thing as one-size-fits-all when it comes to […] Read more…

How to stop being a clingy girlfriend

how to stop being a clingy girlfriend

how to stop being needy and desperate in a relationship Whether you are currently in a relationship or simply dating, you probably have experienced clinginess before and know how neediness can ruin your relationship.  Being overly clingy, controlling, or even jealous seriously turns a man off and makes him question your confidence in yourself.  Neediness […] Read more…

How to be more vulnerable in relationships

how to be vulnerable with a man

how to be vulnerable in dating Vulnerability is one of my favorite topics. Since reading Brené Brown’s The Gifts of Imperfection last year, I have been obsessed with understanding it better and teaching it to my clients. And the more I understand vulnerability, the more I realize that it is what helped me be successful […] Read more…

5 Non-Christian Reasons To Wait Until Marriage

Why wait until marriage from a girl who didn’t  With all the research I have done recently about soul ties, I have been thinking a lot about the connection I have had with my past sexual partners.  As I explained before, there are different types of soul ties you create throughout your life. There is […] Read more…

Why men come back when you move on

they always come back when you move on

Why they always come back when you move on A story as old as a handmaid’s tale. Men that suddenly pop out of the woodworks after you finally moved on.  In the three real relationships and multiple situationships I have been in, this phenomenon always held true. The moment I had completely given up on […] Read more…

Should I wait for him or move on?

Os it worth waiting for someone you love The most dreaded conversation in the dating process after the “What are we?” convo is probably when a relationship comes to an end. A lot of times you can tell that something is up just by the way he is acting. Maybe he has been distant for […] Read more…

When God tells you to let go of someone

When God tells you to let go

When to let a relationship go How do you know when God tells you to let go of someone?  Have you ever been in a situation and had that tugging feeling that God is telling you to end a relationship? But your emotions for him are running so high that you can’t make a decision? […] Read more…